I have decided:
1). Not to be bullied by those sour, or happy-drunk, on the grapes of their haste down the altar.
2). That though I love my family dearly, all who presist in asking questions about the state of my “unionessless” will be place on the ignore phone call list, ignore email list, ignore letter list.
3). to follow though on my dream to travel the word when the opportunity presents itself. Love will follow though past airports, time zone differences, and backpack travel.
4). To marry HE who makes me the most happy. Not “he” who is most compatible with my culture.
5). That he could be Africa, African-American, Asian (Black-nese, sounds so good), Anglo-Saxon, Pacific Islander, or a myriad of other things. I couldn’t care less.
6). I will have it all:)
All i have to keep in mind is this:”A woman’s life is actually a juggling act”My prayer is that I choose wisely what is BEST for ME.
